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I think "casual relationships" are pointless. I just see them as a waste of time. People just using each other for sex instead of putting that effort into actually finding a partner seems really stupid and shallow. Nobody I know agrees with me. Everyone is just fine with the idea of casually making yourself that vulnerable to somebody, everyone's just totally fine with being that close and intimate with someone they have no feelings for. But maybe I'm just too emotional. Maybe I just don't need sex like normal people seem to. I just hate feeling alone on this.

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  • I'm with you 100%. My own mother ridiculed me when I told her this same thing. Well now I've been married for 10 years and she is desperately seeking a 60 year old man to "date" after her on again off again bf of 20 years left her again.

  • Well you have to understand that everyone is different. You're neither right nor wrong with your opinion. This is something you feel and decide for yourself, and just because you feel like this doesn't mean everyone who doesn't is doing it wrong. I can't find a really good metaphor for this, but maybe you can compare it to a project at school and being or not being a perfectionist. If a perfectionist is assigned a project, they want to do it either perfectly or they feel like it's not worth doing at all. They're the ones who get either a grade 1 or 6 every time. Then there are the students who are totally casual, they still do their best but they won't let a school project interfere with their personal life. If they know they won't be able to do it right, they'll do it just as they can at the moment and are fine with getting a grade 3 or 4. See, the first student may get perfect results, But he also may end up with no result at all. The second one will have a lot of poor results, but this doesn't mean he can't be perfect on another project. I don't mean to say that you're doing poorly in your love life, just that you obviously don't want to get poor results just to get results at all. Which is fine. But it's not for everyone.

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I'm graduating college in four months and I have absolutely no fucking idea what I'm going to do with myself after. It's constantly in the back of my mind and it scares the shit out of me in all honesty.

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  • Get a job?

  • I felt that same way 3 semesters in and dropped out because of the pressure. I'm doing okay now. Try not to stress too much about what happens afterwards. Things have a way of working out.

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I dated this guy back in highschool which I considered myself lucky cause he was super popular with the girls and I wasnt the "super pretty cheerleader" type. I was a chubby emo girl for sure but anyways, We broke up and I found out we broke up cause he found a girl he talked too on the internet and that really messed with my self-esteem. But now Im dating his best freind and we have been together for 6 years and we have two kids, still going strong so the moral of the story is that things are going to be shitty at first but happiness will come along as you least expect it too.

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I've seen so many failed relationships that I'm gradually turning into someone who doesn't believe in marriage. I used to dreamt of having an extravagant wedding, but now I can't see the spark or magic on it.

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  • So what if marriage doesn't last? What's important is enjoying the time you spent with someone, even if that time comes to an end. It happens.

  • I'm confused, you start by talking about marriage then you say you don't see the spark in an extravagant wedding anymore. That's the problem causing relationships to fail, people get excited about the engagement, the wedding, the honeymoon... and they completely forget about the actual marriage.

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Is it consider cheating if your bf/gf/husband/wife sexting and video call strangers?

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  • If it’s for money then I’d say no.

  • Yes. If your partner is getting or giving sexual gratification to another person, they're cheating. Video calling isn't inherently cheating though, unless they're doing dirty things on the video call.

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I love my cat. Really, I do. He's so sweet and he's such a great cat. And I am so blessed to have him right now because he vanished for several months, and I only got him back because he still had his collar by the grace of God and some lady called me. My confession, though, is that I'm considering rehoming him. Despite his great qualities, this cat is trouble. He's very mischievous and clever, and he's constantly getting into the dog's food. And now he's started getting into our food. I try to keep him contained downstairs because my family is allergic to him, but he keeps finding ways to escape upstairs and go on a feeding frenzy. It's pissing me off that I can't outsmart this cat. He keeps barging his way through the ghetto door setup with brute force, or leaping a good 10 feet over the top of it. I'm at my wits' end. I don't want to keep him crated all the time- I can't, even if I wanted to, because I can't afford to keep spending this much on laundry detergent and cleaning supplies to take care of his messes in the crate- but he can't keep getting upstairs. I love him and I'm so glad he's home, but he wasn't like this before. He used to be so well behaved. It's like he's a totally different cat :( And now I don't know if I can handle him. My various mental disorders make me unable to handle stress well, and this is stressing me out beyond belief. I just wonder if someone else out there is better suited to care for him than I am.

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  • Is building/buying a door (that you can lock) as a separation to upstairs a possibility? And about the food: lock it somewhere (a Box, a hard to open Tupperware, etc, put a six-pack of water on top of your bin) And after your dogs are done eating, clean their plates. It's annoying, I know, but the cat will continue unless he has no chance of succeeding anymore...

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ladies. either you shave and keep up with it or dont shave at all. I think I speak for a lot of guys when I say the porcupine thing ain't working. rather not be poked with every thrust.

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  • Nah m8 I prefer a good trim than a good shave or a full bush. Hit me with that porcupine thing, I like i.t

  • so many excuses

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I don't know what I'm going to do once I graduate from college. I feel like this has taken up so much of my life and I've become used to the routine that I won't know what to do with myself after. I mean, I've been going to school for like 15 years total?? (Kindergarten-now) It's going to be so bizarre to not have that be a part of my life anymore. It's weird to say, but I think I might miss it.

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I just want to feel true happiness again.

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I'm doing two things I shouldn't. One is eating a lot of crappy unhealthy food (I'm diabetic). The other is that I spend money I shouldn't on sport bets and scratch lotteries.

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  • I'm sure these things are coping mechanisms for stress. I recommend getting help if you can, to assist you in finding productive, healthy coping mechanisms that don't involves self destruction.

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