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period cramps are so fucking painful you have no idea, im crying on the floor clutching my stomach wishing someone would just stab me on the arm just so it could take my mind off my cramps

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  • I'm a guy and even I know that's not normal. See a doctor.

  • Many women have endometriosis and never find out because they think it's normal to be in so much pain, and/or because doctors don't take them seriously. Definitely go to the doctor and talk about it.

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My life is going well all things considered... But I still have a low self-esteem. I still feel like I don't want anyone to see me because I feel that my personality and my heart are gross and anyone who gets to know me would just judge me. I'm scared of making friends because of this and I constantly doubt that my family doesn't really love me. I don't know how to like myself more. My mom is 54 and she still has a low self-esteem, what if I'll end up like her and dislike myself for my whole life? I do visit the psychiatric clinic regularly, but I haven't made any progress on my sense of self-worth. I can't keep going there forever either - my nurse said so herself. She said it's gonna be about three years tops,and after that I'm supposed to get support for the problems of life from the people in my life. But I always thought that relying on people emotionally was manipulative and would tire out the people you vent to. Anyway I still don't know what to do about my self esteem.

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  • Sounds like you need to find a new psychiatrist. You see them as long as you need their help, there's no time limit. You're right, you shouldn't use the people in your life as your shrink. You can talk to people about your feelings and ask for advice with problems, but you can't expect them to treat you. That's what professionals are for. Your nurse is a dumb bitch. I hope you can work through this and build some self esteem. You deserve love, from others and from yourself.

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I've had a grudge against my father since many years. It's because of how aggressive he gets when he's angry, how easily he gets angry (and very inconsistently... one day something makes him rage, next day he says that the thing is totally okay) and because he rarely considers other people's opinions or takes advice from them, thinking he knows best. I don't know what to do about my own anger for him or whether it's even reasonable to be so upset. Pushing my anger away didn't work... It started to resurface during last year. But I don't want to talk to him about this because I'm really scared of him. I guess deep down I'm worried that he'll dislike me if I speak against him. I've noticed that he favors my brother and me (I'm a girl btw) over my sisters, and I think it's because my sisters don't hesitate to show it when they disagree with him. My brother and I are more avoidant about our concerns. I think it's really wrong that father is so unfavouring towards my sisters just because they say what they think. But I can't bring myself to do the same as them because I'm terrified of his anger. And I don't know if I should feel any of this anger and fear but I can't make them disappear.

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  • I am sorry, I know what it's like to live in that kind of environment. you just have to ignore all the tantrums, find friends with positive vibes, and try your hardest to not let it bother you. people like that have alot of personal insecurities, and they try to push it all on their kids. just remember that

  • Your father sounds emotionally abusive. Mine was like yours. Don't be afraid of him, it only shows him that the anger gets him what he wants. He's throwing tantrums like a toddler. I'm sorry you have to live this way. Just remember it doesn't matter if he likes you or not. All that matters is that you are safe and happy and doing your best.

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I'm a compulsive cheater. I hate myself, and I will end my life soon, so this stuff ends.

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  • Don't kill yourself over that. That's stupid. This is a problem that can be fixed. There is an underlying cause behind your cheating if it truly is compulsive and you can't make yourself stop- whether you're addicted to sex or just in some desperate need of validation, there are several possibilities; there are several ways to treat/fix it. But you have to try. You have to seek help and want help. You have to be willing to listen to what they say.

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Is it just in my country, or do most game shows that are advertised as family friendly contain blantant, not-subtle-at-all innuendos and even offhanded mentions of sex?

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  • Have you ever seen children's movies or TV shows as an adult? It's everywhere. I don't know if it's because the makers have so much fun doing it, or because they want to keep it interesting for adults, or both. But it's not bad. Children don't die when they hear the word sex. They don't understand jokes that seem obvious to you. And when they do, then it's because they already know what sex is. As long as there are no rape jokes or sexist comments, it's fine.

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thoughts on the abortion law?

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  • The problem I have with the “heartbeat law” is that during the first few 6 weeks, most women will not necessarily know if they are pregnant or not, especially if it happens by accident even after all the necessary precautions are taken (contraceptives, birth control, etc.). And a heartbeat doesn’t mean much when the central nervous system and other crucial bodily functions are incomplete. Plus, the bigger picture is that the states approving these anti-abortion laws are intentionally challenging groups that would defend abortion, and if that happens it will go to the Supreme Court and there is a possibility Roe vs. Wade will be overturned. There are even attempts made to change the meaning of rape and consent, like in Alabama no exceptions are made for incest or rape, and some lawmakers are even trying to claim that birth control is “pre-abortion” and therefore should be essentially illegal too. And as a woman myself, I find the idea of getting my tubes tied or sterilization might be better to do sooner than later because who knows if those procedures will go next.

  • I think it's dangerous and we'd be better off overhauling sex ed and having better access to various forms of birth control. But really a ban won't stop abortions, it'll just stop SAFE/SANITARY abortions. More women will die from botched surgeries and home remedies.

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I isolate myself so much focusing on my career that I feel like I’m losing myself trying to be someone I’m not in order to attract the attention of anyone because I just really want friends. I really only have 1 friend and she just seems to have her shit so much more in order than I do that it’s kinda hard to keep up. I might be depressed. I can’t even afford therapy. I flirt and use sex as a way to try take my mind away from how lonely I am. I don’t know what to do. I’m really losing myself and I feel it. I had such a fire in my heart that’s now dimming so slowly..

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  • First off, don't compare yourself to people. Everyone goes through life at a different pace and on different paths; you'll never be the same as anyone else. Let people who are ahead of you inspire you and teach you; don't pity yourself for being behind or scold yourself for not doing enough. You'll get there in time. As for the sex, definitely don't do that... you could end up with an unplanned kid and that'll REALLY turn your world upside down. My advice? Focusing on your career is great, but let yourself have time. Free time. Time to do things you enjoy, or try new things, or even just relax and let your mind reset. You can't make your brain power through like a steam engine 24/7, you have to let it rest sometimes. Best of luck to you.

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Just met with my ex after such a long time.... we both are doing well with our lives. He just broke up with his girlfriend of 1 year, and I've been with no one after I broke up with him, 8 years ago. I don't think we still have the same feelings about each other anymore as we did years ago. But is it wrong if I hoped a little? That he still hold feelings towards me?

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  • It's not wrong. It's normal to still have at least some feelings for someone you used to share that kind of connection with.

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Since we are all on the sex and abortion topic today, I had an odd conversation with a Black guy about this that I could never discuss in public. (I'm a White male) we were talking about raising our kids and he mentioned how, "Once they turn 13 they start fucking and sucking around." My mind was blown. How is that possible? I had known the stats vaguely, but suddenly the abortion politics made more sense. How the hell could that work logistically? We are talking middle schoolers! I lost my virginity at 24, and my wife (Asian female) lost hers to me at 20. We already had degrees and were adults. No wonder abortion is such a huge deal in the Black community. Kids make bad choices. It also hit me why Malcom X might be right. The two cultures weren't compatible. White Alabama laws work for most of White Alabama. Black Alabama (majority) wants abortion, gun bans, and legal weed. We either got to split AL into two states and let them rule their own lives or buy land in Cali to use for reparations to help them move, because this status quo is causing enmity among people who should not be enemies.

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  • I'm black, I AGREE. we don't want cali, we want africa all of it, y'all can have america. this is trueeeee. this is true.. segregation is not the worst thing, inequality might be but more black people were middle class before integration. and this horrible sickening cuckold shit didn't exist before our worlds collided either

  • It all depends on the area you live in. I live in a progressive northern state where most people recieve a great education and medical care. In states like Alabama where they are not accepting of minorities and don't value education especially sex ed as much, then the populace becomes uneducated and powerful white decide to approve laws that restrict personal choice.

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I hate spring... why is it so hot

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  • my bedroom is in the converted attic. my walls are hot to the touch. i want to shed my skin and just be a puddle.

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