If you don't know me don't judge me. If we've never met or had a conversation there's literally no reason for you to have an opinion about me. What these strangers say doesn't bother me as much as the fact that they're saying it and it's extremely annoying. There isn't anything anyone can say about me that's going to hurt my feelings or knock my confidence, it's dealing with rumors and bs lies that gets on nerves all from people that probably don't know anything more than my first name if they even know that. Im from a small city, theres only 1 high school, 1 middle school and 3 elementary schools and I'm a very sociable person, I'm friendly and I volunteer in the community so I know hundreds of people on a first name basis. I wouldn't consider most of them very close friends but I can hold a conversation with any of them and there are several of them that i consider close enough to hang out with so it just kinda sucks that some people feel the need to go out of their way to try to make me feel down about myself when I'm the exact opposite and I want to make people feel good about themselves. I don't discriminate, as long as they're a nice person too I don't have any problems being friends or being a listening ear. I've even considered pursuing a career in counseling. I think my people skills and ability to relate to multiple people and situations could be beneficial to a career like that.