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I'm a female. But lately I've discovered that I'm much more comfortable when I dress androgynously. I prefer to look less feminine. Now during the winter, I wear loose fitting hoodies and sweat pants. And I'm perfectly fine. But now that summer is rolling around... I kind of want to invest in a binder. I haven't done much research, because I know if I start it, I'll buy one. So, I've been putting it off. I have trans friends and know other trans people who bind because they feel so disconnected with their breats. And I feel like they will all think badly of me if I do it just because. I also know my family will hate it. I've just recently come out as lesbian to them. And I know none of them will understand me wearing a binder. I'm not sure what to do. Cause I don't exactly mind my boobs... I just kinda wish they were not there... I don't know. I was talking to one friend about it, snd she was like "maybe you're trans?" And I don't think so. I'm pretty sure if I was, it would be much more intrusive than what it is now. And I mean I do dress very masculine. But it's just because I'm more comfortable that way. Always have been. I've also had people call me sir, and I don't care. I don't care if someone calls me sir or ma'am/he or she, it doesn't bother me at all one way or another. I'm just me... "World be damned, this is who I am."

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  • If you don't want to be another gender, you're not trans. If you want to wear a binder, go for it. No one can tell you how to live your life. If you'd feel better with a binder, get one. Your friends should understand if they're really your friends.

  • Just do whatever the fuck you want. You won't be completely happy either way so just choose what makes you more happy, if you care about other's opinion so much then do what they want, if you'd rather be yourself than do that. Stop overthinking, nothing in life is perfect

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