My wife never wanted oral sex. She not once did it. Also she lies there like a wood plank every time we have sex. Which is 3 times a year by now and we are 30 yo. She is very hot but not able to talk about sex and has a low sex drive. She texts with guys that flirt with her. She loves it. I found myself enjoying sucking off dudes and getting sucked off by dudes while I work at night. It's fucked up on so many levels.