My boyfriend used to be sad that he couldn't grow a beard (while his friends already could). Now he is starting to get some stubs. But it's not a beard yet. It grows just in some places, and looks... well, not good. But he doesn't shave, because he is so proud of it... I tried to carefully tell him but he ignored me. I don't know if I should tell him that it's just ugly, or if I should let him do what he feels good with?