I sometimes have weird estranged moments with my boyfriend. Like: we are just sitting around, living life, and suddenly I look at him and it feels unreal. Not positively unreal like "oh my god I can't believe I've found someone so awesome" but more like "who is this person? Why are we together?". But it's not like I'm really questioning this, it's more a FEELING that something is wrong. I guess most of you have felt this about yourselves: when you look into the mirror, and suddenly can't believe that this is you. I don't know if it's a red flag or normal.