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My boyfriend and I have been together for over 2.5 years - seems little now but feels like forever - in a good way and a bad way. We've had our fights, we've had our good times but I can not just forget everything he has done before. I've lied to him before, and he punished for it and I understand that, but when he lies and does things that he knows gets me insecure and makes me want to end the relationship - then it's okay. He don't think I can punish him for things like that. It hurts so bad, cannot talk to him about it and I've gained so much weight because of it. Also when he hints that I should go for a walk, go for a a run or go to the gym it its okay for him but whenever I joke about it it's suddenly hurtful. He often say that I'm so angry all the time, he just doesn't seem to care that he is the reason why.. He says I just have to deal with it. I have no one to talk to about this and I cannot count the amount of times I've said to myself that it was the last time - that this time I will break up with him.. Just wanted to clear my head for once.

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  • i'm EXACTLY at that place!!!! :(

  • The only person you can truly control absolutely is yourself. Someone out there will always be doing something to hurt us, or to try to control us. It's usually not a good idea to be in a relationship with that sort of person, but the thing you have to remember is that you are your own boss. He can only control you if you let him, and you only gained weight because you let yourself. There isn't any amount of support that will help you cope with this. Your only option is to stand up to him, and that HAS to come from within you. You need to find your own strength, even if it seems difficult. It's the only way to truly feel free.

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