My step sister constantly makes my step dad feel like dirt when he doesn't give her money for things like clothes or social events. She'll go on to complain about how "horrible" her life is because she occasionally fights with her mom and my step dad was sick a while back. She makes him feel horrible about getting sick. She always says, "You don't know what it's like to be depressed." When she says that, I'm tempted to tell her about the seven years of sexual abuse I endured as a child. I don't ever want it to come down to that, but sometimes I'm terrified that it will.