Fell in love with one of my co-worker. She has a husband and i have a girlfriend for more than 10 years. Also i think she has someone else. I can't sleep and soon i wont be able to do anything. I'm so scared and afraid that she will ruin her life somehow. Also i feel so weak and helpless. I feel that she don't need me and i can't help her. I don't mind if I'm not the one for her. But she must be happy.