i feel like my handicap siblings took away my life. i'm always the one that has to look after them and my parents depend a lot on me for help with them. i've gotten so used to helping that i feel like i can never move away and have my own life. what guy (or girl, even) is gonna wanna be with someone that has been tied down to kids that aren't even mine? i find myself hating them. i don't know what to do. what can i do?