My ex and I dated for almost 3 years. We lived 1700km far away from each other. Because he had a stable job, after 2 years together I moved to his city. My ex was a "religious" person that made me feel guilty about sex, and yet cheated on me. And now he's dating the girl (that I also knew), and rented the place that I helped him to buy. But, before all the bad things that he did to me, he was my best friend (and really good to me). The last time I saw him, we were still together. We never had the last talk. And after 1 year, I still can't move on and I'm truly depressed. I don't want him back, but sometimes I think that I need closure. Should I talk to him, after all this time? I really don't know what to do. I just wanna have peace.
If he made you feel guilty about sex then he was never a good person, hon. Control freak, much? Not to mention the cheating. WTH do some people need 'the last talk'? It's not like that's an actual thing. He was a piece of shit to you, what more do you need to know? Move on.
Don't get back, don't search for him.I had the same experience (only the distance wasn't that long). We broke up twice (without the final talk as you said), and each time I was going back with him, everything was the same as before. He made me feel guilty for some things, I didn't have my own life...If he is neglecting you - he's not your man. You will understand when you meet The One. :) Good luck!
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