I suspect that my mom might have told my coworker that I have a crush on him. He for some reason brought up to her out of the blue that he has a girlfriend but he wants to keep it a secret (which she passed on to me). And he's been kind of distant with me ever since she told me that. I'm feeling paranoid and thinking maybe she told him I like him and then he told her to tell me he's not single so he wouldn't have to reject me. I mean if she shared his secret, why wouldn't she share mine? I'm mad if she did because I was totally fine with just being his friend and him never knowing about my love for him, but if he knows I like him and feels awkward around me now, I have no chance at staying friends with him. But there's no way I can ask her without pissing her off, and I can't ask him because she might not have told him and then he'd definitely know. idk I know this sounds dumb and I feel like I'm 13 again going over this in my mind, but I'm really upset by this. He means a lot to me.