my husband is whoremonger. he's not very bright at all. why didn't i know or see this before? probably because the term narcissist wasn't widely known back then and he wore his mask longer than normal. it wasn't until the 4 DUIs and rehab that all the shit came out in full view. he's a rage monster too. my heart is broken. i don't think ill ever love again. not sure if i want to. im not bitter just broken and numb.