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Thoughts of a guy who went from "absolute beginner" into having kinky sex in a few month: Things have gotten kinda weird since we established a safeword...for example, she doesn't want me to do anal, yet things get worked up and since she didn't say the safeword, I still do it, then she asks me to continue because according to her, she likes it if I go, as she said, "wild" on her and "abuse" her. I mean, yeah, hardcore sex is fun and all, but it's utmost questionable once the point at which "no means yes" is reached. Also we're into pet play, and it's fun to hear her purr like a cat while cumming, but, dear god, the implications of the whole "animal"-theme kinda make me uncomfortable. Another interesting thing is: While I'm horny, her cum tastes really good, but afterwards I realize that it actually tastes hardly defineable, mostly like urine - google it, the stuff's mostly made up from it - yet slightly better, I guess... (I'd would almost be sad if this doesn't end up on r/Ihavesex)

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  • Talk to her about the things that make you uncomfortable. If you can't compromise or work through it, she might not be for you. No one should have to be uncomfortable having sex.

  • It's normal to be a bit uncomfortable at first, but please don't keep doing things that you don't like just because you're too eager to have sex at all. You two can always compromise. For the cum part, it's natural to be turned off by something the second your general arousal wears off. The part of the brain that makes you feel disgust literally shuts (partly) off when you're turned on.

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