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Im so fucking hurt right now. I respected this woman’s boundaries for 2 fucking years and I just found out tonight she’s having a baby by another dude it barely been 5 months since we broke up. We started dating 2016 and she ended things in December 2018 and im so dead inside right now. I gave every ounce of love I had to this woman. She told me she wanted to wait until marriage to have sex and despite my concerns and hesitation I accepted it and was faithful to her in a sexless relationship just for her to fuck some other dude and have a baby by him not even 5 months later. I’ve never felt this kind of pain in my life. This was supposed to be my future wife, we were supposed to have a family together. I put my all into this woman. I’m just in absolute shock right now I can hardly breathe.

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  • i know that feeling of not being able ro breathe all too well. just like you i couldnt any other way to describe that pain inside. believe me time heals all wounds and it will get better I promise. i know right now that seems stupid unrealistic and probably annoying but its true. i felt like that when my friends and family would tell me after a heartbreaking end with a man i was inlove with. in fact i wanted to punch anybody in the face that uttered those words. as long as you have no personality or mood disorders or depression or any kind of mental health issues ( if you do please see a counselor. you will need help getting thru this) you will be just fine in time. this could be a blessing in disguise. maybe you will actually meet the love of your life cus it wasnt her. just be grateful u didmt marry her amd have kids with her just 2 find out she is fucking some other dude that would be 100× worse and painful 4 you. u will be ok.

  • It's gonna be okay, man. She was a bad match for you anyway. The marriage wouldn't have worked. I always felt insulted when a woman realized we weren't a match and dumped me before I realized it and dumped her. That's natural. But the important thing is you aren't stuck with the WRONG woman.

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