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Apparently my neighbor hasn't had hot water for months, since before Easter? It can't be that she hasn't paid her bills bc she's got heating. I feel guilty because I should offer to let her use my bathroom but it's so untidy here and I have no energy to clean. I don't want her to see how I live bc she thinks I'm competent...

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  • You're not obligated to let her use your bathroom. It's the landlords responsibility to repare whatever is broken in her apartment, and it's her responsibility to care for her things to get repared. You could do it to be kind, but if that would make you feel bad, there's no point in doing it.

  • Not having energy to clean doesn't make you incompetent. I know how you feel. Tidying up takes a lot of energy, and it's okay if you just don't have it sometimes. No one is perfect. But also don't feel bad for not letting her use your bathroom, that's not your responsibility. It would be a kind gesture, but it is by no means necessary.

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