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Thanksgiving I found porn on my boyfriends phone. I was naive and thought that he was being truthful when we decided early on in our relationship that neither of us would watch it out of respect for one another. Come to find out he has been watching it in secret for more than a year, after we move in together also. How can this not be something that has to do with me? I’m in decent shape and fairly confident, with a 32D chest but my bf never even seems interested in foreplay or touching or even looking at my boobs. He just wants to get straight to the act. But the porn I found had girls with giant boobs, so how can I not feel insecure and confused?? I honestly feel betrayed by him and I feel cheated on. I know many people think porn is normal and not a big deal, but to me it really is and he also knew that. When I found out and reacted in a way that I wanted to have space and possibly split up from him, he told me he loves me more than anything and would do anything for me. If he loves me more than anything why couldn’t he given me the respect that I deserve and not watch porn. I find it extremely selfish of him. Me and my bf have been together almost 8 years now, but if no trust is there then what do we have now? He is also moving in a few months to another state for dental school and he expects me to go with him to wherever he chooses, but honestly I may not go after all of this. If anything all of this has shown me just how supportive my friends are though.

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  • literally every guy that exists is watching porn and we are forced to lie to our girlfriends because women are fucking retarded. yes we watch porn get over it.. naive as fuck lmfaooooo

  • well the lying I can understand how that hurts but sometimes porn is just sometime to pass time sometimes I have jacked it just cause I was home alone and bored and foreplay problem for guys is just honestly a lack of sex ed we dont understand how important it is for women have you ever sat him down and talk kinks or anything like that or how you need foreplay

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