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I feel shame and guilt over the fact that when I was being raped and sexually abused as a young child by my dad I had orgasims and sometimes even anticipated the sexual abuse I became use to that feeling and now as an adult I don't know how to have orgasims without thinking about what he did to me and it makes me sick to think about it all.....

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  • It's normal that as a child you were feeling pleasure from that, in all times in life we feel it, the problem is your father that got you used to that. If he did that once it would be bad, but the fact that he did it a lot is 1000 times worse. It's like playing a piano. After 20 repeats you will remember it. I challenge you to not think about your dad while having sex. Try to focus on your partner. How their skin feels, their moans etc. if your dad somehow slipps in your mind try to rethink about your partner again. Try that for 5 minutes a lot of times and i won't lie to you it will take a long time but it will be good and you will be proud of yourself.

  • therapy and an understanding partner will help the guilt fade. i still need to put my hand around my wifes throat and be rough with her for her to orgasm sometimes. it's been 12 years since her rape and we've been together for 7. It's slowly getting to the point where we can actually male love instead of fucking.

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