ok well me and my wife. we have been together for 12 years now. but in those 12 years we have cheated on each other. I have told her all the. girls i have been with in the 12 years. she has told me some of the guys she been with. but I feel like she holding back. like she leaving some guys out. this was a deal we tell each other every thing so nothing comes up later. but I feel like she just leaving some guys out.