Preparing for my father to get supportive living. He will be 80 in two weeks and I live too far to help him everyday. He wants to live by himself. I hate his living situation but he refuses to change. All I can do is set up a possible support group to help him. If he refuses, I can't help him. We met up with each other after 30 years of his absence. For the past 7 years, I would drive 45 minutes there and back, to visit him every two weeks and help with his groceries. Sadly, he didn't raise me, but I wouldn't be here without him. I am trying to be a good daughter, but I have to say that it is hard.