How do I let him go? I fear my general adoration for him is turning into obsession. I promised myself to let him go. Our positions are clear as crystal. He doesn't want to be in a relationship, neither do I personally, and he doesn't feel the same about me as I do him. I've tried to distance myself from him, to let my feelings drift into the unknown. But everytime he texts me, I get so excited and I regress back into step one. I'm continually haunted by distant memories of him kissing me and my hand running through his hair. Someone please tell me how I can get through this.