I love my husband dearly. But our sex life is so horrid that I can't but help to imagine what it would be like to have an affair, even though iI know I never would in real life.
You people are freaking me out now....I know marriage has its brick wall moments, but isn't that what it's all about? It's like people don't remember exchanging vows, something along the lines of "I will always love you no matter what". I'm not married, but I'm planning on proposing soon, I've been having second thoughts here and there at times because when it comes to marriage you need to sacrifice a lot of yourself in order to be with someone else. Sex is part of the deal but I think as one of the bases of a marriage you shouldn't treat it as a deal breaker once it starts going scarce...try spicing things up...ladies tweak it up, increase the sexy meter with some lingerie one night surprise your husbands. Gentlemen, same thing, get back home early cook dinner for her, prepare her bath, randomly bring home flowers and chocolates, send some also maybe to where she works, you don't have to do it everyday obviously but enough to show this person you swore to spend your whole life with that you appreciate what you both have together...
I actually just posted a confession like this. I feel the same way and I'm only nine months married
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