I know this guy who isn't precisely my friend but a person I now know well. He opens up to anyone that shows some concern about him. He told me that in the last month his grandparents passed away and that he had gone to a phsichiatrist several times each week and that his mother barely payed him attention. His father left both of them. He is a very troubled guy that I want to help but the thing is that he is extremely selfish and harsh with me. I don't know if he does it on purpose. I want to help him but helping him would mean that I have to completely devote to him and I'm just not that kind of girl. He craves the type of attention that forces you to forget about yourself and focus only on him. I don't know if I can do that. I know he needs it but I don't think I can do it. I really hope he finds someone who can do it. He told me not to tell anyone but I needed to get it off my chest.