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I've had a boyfriend for like 3 years now. But I have many guy friends and one of them fell in love with me some time ago. Because he knows that he will never become my boyfriend (because I really love mine and I like older guys; he's my age), he tries to be my best friend. Since I know he likes me more than a friend, I reject him every time he tries to be nice. He also wants to see me once a week to keep our friendship up but I just don't feel like it and that's what I am telling him. I sometimes even lie so I don't have to see him. It breaks his heart and he's missing me so much... But I just don't see why I should see him every week. When I'm at him (if we meet), he always tries to cuddle with me which makes me feel very uncomfortable. Once, he also tried to touch my boobs.... I mean, what is he thinking? I know it hurts him emotionally very hard every time I reject him, he cries himself to sleep almost every night and he's so done. Sure, I am sorry a bit, but really I don't care........ He's acting like a girl and I don't know what he thinks should happen... And though, I write with him almost every day.

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  • Stop leading him on give it to him straight up, ignoring him wont make him stop, the truth hurts, but it's better than living a lie, give it to him straight that you're not into him, no cryptic messages or anything, give it to him straight up, If he decides he still wants to be your friend then that's not bad, as long as he respects the line you've drawn, you know you like older guys and what not so him just trying to be friends with you could be sincere and it could work out that way...if he disrespects your boundaries then chuck him out, simple...basically in this situation try not to burn bridges, you never know he could be the same guy you run to when you have a problem no one else could help you with....

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