Dealing with an abusive father, who eventually left, growing up has left me incapable of trusting men. I've got very strong feelings for a guy, but can't bring myself to open up and be 'vulnerable' incase he's the same type of man my father was.
You have to look at your options here. Is there any reason that the next guy will enable you to open up? If not, you might as well get a dozen of cats right away. (just kidding). There will be guys the type your father was and chances even are that you might even feel attracted to dominant older men because of that.
Just go for it or you're taking away your own happiness.
let the love do is job or you'll probably regret it
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