I don`t really understand my girlfriend. She`s usually so funny and witty and caring but when we disagree and she feels I`m cornering her, she answers back with an anger and a sparkle in her eyes that makes me take 2 steps back. Where`s that coming from? We can`t even argue properly. With her, nothing is ever black or white, there`s always several shades of grey. She`s really smart and well-educated and since her vocabulary is larger than mine, we usually don`t communicate properly because she says the message I`m trying to send it`s not what actually gets sent, because of the words I use. But I can`t help it if a word has one meaning for me but it has several meanings for her and the message gets distorted. She`s always listening not only to what you`re saying, but also how you`re saying it. She says it`s not only the idea that matters, but the words one chooses to use to express it. She`s really talkative but I get the feeling she`s not actually saying what`s on her mind..And her mind is a deep abyss. I can see it in her eyes that she`s always thinking or analyzing someting and telling me her conclussion from a psychological point of view. It`s like she understand perfectly each and every situation from every party`s point of view. It`s one of the reasons she usually refuses to take sides, because she says she can`t completely agree with either side. It`s like living with a hot Freud. I can never tell her anything else but the complete truth. She always knows when I`m leaving something out of the story, she says it`s because of her flawless intuition coupled with her skills in deductive reasoning. Man, she can connect the dots in a story like a motherfucker! (this is a compliment, I would never insult her, but it`s one of the reasons why I hate playing "Black Stories" with her). I love her with all my heart and we get along perfectly (when we`re not in a communication-disagreement) but sometimes I think I bit on more than I can chew..