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I have a boyfriend but i still love my bestfriend, he dosnt know and If I told him I know things would go bad because im starting to really like my boyfriend. hes everything ive ever wanted but my bestfriend has always been there for me through everything and im always there for him in the same way. he's the only one im 100% comfortable with but I don't know what to do...

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  • Don't listen to this other guy (no offense, I see where he's coming from). A good friend of mine decided to date this kind of "best friend" you speak of and it didn't work out at all. Also, you probably feel more attracted to your boyfriend, am I right? Don't go stepping on his heart for what might be just a fantasy. Also, there's a chance your friend isn't attracted to you (though those odds are rather slim). If you and your boyfriend don't work out, which should be the case if these feelings you have are true, then break up with him and move onto your friend (if he's not single at that moment, he probably isn't attracted to you, which admittedly sucks). It's not perfect but it's the best way to handle your situation without hurting anyone. In the meantime, keep your friend around as a friend, see if you can resist him (don't cheat on your boyfriend, for gods sake).

  • So you love you best friend, but you don't want to dump the guy you're not in love with because you're growing more comfortable with your boyfriend? Newsflash: people can get accustomed to living in a cage and getting 110v shocks every day. Seriously! Dump the boyfriend, tell your best friend you love him. 99% chance is he loves you too, but isn't doing anything because he doesn't want to risk ruining the friendship with you. I'm a guy. Trust me on this.

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