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I've been with my girl friend for over a year and a half. we live together too. she's in love with me, and she's the sweetest person I've ever met she does so much for me if not for her I wouldn't be where I am today. She's the best person I've ever met. The sad thing is I'm not in love with her. The reason I've stayed with her so long is because I've had my heart broken into a million pieces with my previous long term relationship. Knowing how bad it hurts to be so in love and have your heart broken plus her being such a great person I think she deserves to be happy no matter what the cost even if that means me not being as happy. I sacrifice my happiness for her happiness, because having my heart broke so bad feels like a part of me died and I never want for her to feel that pain.

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  • Actually, I think this is quite mean to her :/ I understand that you don't want her to feel the pain of going through a heartbreak, I've been there myself and it hurts like hell, but you can't be with her if you don't feel the same way about her as she feels about you. It won't work out in the future even though you really care about her. If you break up with her in a good way, and end things on good terms, insuring her that you won't just leave her, I am sure she will move on eventually, and then she will find someone who is as in love with her as she is with him, and you will find someone who you'll be really in love with. This relationship will only hurt you and her in the end.

  • Sounds like you really care about her, maybe try doing some romantic things together like dates or a weekend away together or something, see if you can bring back the spark?

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