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im scared, how do i deal with my love, being in a weelchair? he's paralized from his hip and down. he's a really cool guy and is so fun to be with! but lately we have been bit more romantic 'n stuff, kissed and snuggled together. im really in love with him, but when he starts to get sexual i panic cus i dont know what to do!

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  • The best thing to do is just ask him to talk you through it. As the person below said you should probably just speak to him but when you do just emphasise that it's not because you don't want to do it with him (which it may come across that way if you keep backing away from sex) but that you don't really know how to do it. Maybe go along the lines of you're worried you might let him down (which I'm guessing is true)

  • It's hard, but the best thing to do is to talk to him about how you feel - find out what you're both comfortable with, what he's capable of doing, etc. Just be respectful and talk about it, it might be difficult but it'll save you a lot of stress and upset in the long run. There's a really good video on YouTube by LaciGreen about sex with disabilities which might help. Hope it going well!

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