I always told myself not to date untill i have my life together such as a home and car. I have lived on my own for years now and still find it hard to date. Ive been told by some women that they cant trust a guy who has his own place cause they think its to easy to have other women over. I think its ridiculous to see it that way but i dont like insecure women anyways. But its very irritating that so many want a project for a bf. Someone still at home and no goals all for the sake of molding them into what they want.