My boyfriend once told my friend that he would never date a girl that has dated another girl, doesn't believe in god, and has problems with self harm. Well, I have had a girlfriend, I'm an atheist, and I've been struggling with self harm for a couple of years now (I'm getting better, though. One month clean). He knows I don't believe in god, and he seems okay with that. I'm not sure if I should tell him the other stuff..