I want her to open up to me. But she did it a little and she got tears in her eyes and I just didn't know what to do. I can't handle tears. I am afraid that she will start crying and I just don't know how to handle things. I feel stupid for this :(
from a woman's point of view it could be a few different things. she could be worried or scared on how you'd react, or could be cautious about herself on what she needs to talk about because of anxiety or depression. All you should do is sit with her hold her tell her it's okay, and explain slowly
I'm probably pretty similar to her in that way. Just because she's crying that doesn't mean she doesn't want to tell you or that it doesn't help her to talk about herself. I usually start crying even more when someone hugs me because I'm just not used to it. Deal with her tears and things will eventually get better. For both of you.
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