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I am new to this, I never vent to anyone really cause I don't want to look weak. I feel as if I am destined to be alone forever. I look at my father and he seems content with being alone. My oldest brother as much as I hate to say it is a horrible father who is now married to a gold digger that only cares about her kids (my brother is not rich by any means) but anything she wants he buys for her for her kids but can't find the time of day to spend with his kids (5). His past relationships with his baby mommas (3) were terrible. To me he just seems to be with who'll have him because he is afraid of being alone. Me I'm okay with being alone more so because it seems like my life would be happier lived without the intrusion of letting my "kids" down or failing as a "husband" I just wish I could understand this concept better and why I feel that the men in my family were never meant to be in a healthy normal relationship...

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  • In some families things like this get pasted down, because they probably have never seen a real good working relationship. They have don't really know what a healthy relationship is so they think that the relationship they are in are healthy. I'm glad you are able to understand that they deserve more and what they are doing is not respectful relationships. (example, when a mother gets into an abusive relationship and her mother was in the same type, her daught sees this and without proper knowledge or understanding of respect about yourself and others she may very well always get into bad relationship.) There's really no excuse to this kind of pattern but it does happen and you can see what they aren't able to see. Don't give up on love and don't let it make you think that you'll fall into te cycle. Some people do stay in bad relationships because they don't think they can do better or deserve better, and they don't want to be alone so they put up with it. Glad you understand, and it sounds like you would be a great father and won't let your kids down.

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