It bugs me when family members try to talk me into doing things I don't wanna do. Its not that I don't care, I just don't wanna do it, just because you do. And if I do it anyway, it won't be because I care about it. It will be because you pressured me into it. If a person though and felt the same as you, you wouldn't have to try so hard, to convince them to do what you want. They'd just do it!