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When I was little, my dad was barley ever around. He smoked, and drank, and gave very little effort to help the family. After my mom and dad's divorce he would only visit once every couple months. Now its more like once a year and a half... Things between me and my dad got worse and worse. I'm 18 now and he's missed out on more than half my life and forgotwhen I was born. He'll txt me happy birthday weeks before or after it actually happens. I've grown to hate him. He's the reason smoke and the smell of alcohol makes me dizzy. Hes the reason I had to grow up during my childhood so I could make sure my brothers were safe when he was drinking. He's the reason for all this... Now I know people will tell me at least hes the reason I'm alive and I shouldn't be too hard on him, but I have tried too many times to forgive him and he just kept pushing me away... Now i'm done trying. I haven't seen him in almost 2 years now. He's forgotten me and my brother's birthdays, he hasn't called, he's just stopped trying like I asked. But not just with me. With my brothers too... I hate that. He gives up like normal (which I'm used to) but this time on my brothers. Do any of you have fathers like this? Please tell me I'm not the only one who was abandoned like this... The only one who understands what its like to have a dad who just vanishes like that...

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  • So you're going to give so much feelings to a person you bearly see??!!.... get over it!!!! You are alreadt grown up!!!!. Stop complaining and enjoy nice things about life. My father was always with me but cold as hell. He even valled me by my brothers name and did I hate himnor my self?, noo!! I kept on with my life

  • My dads not vanished, so i dont know the situation youre in. But i do wish you all the best for your future and stay strong! Hopefully one day you will become an amazing mom/dad since you wont put your kids in that situation :) dont give up, youre worth it!

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