I have been in a relationship with a guy for 6 months and yesterday we had sex for the first time. Though I did not come, I was screaming his name so loud that now I can hardly speak... But he shares his name with the guy I'm in love for 3 years and who I was imagining while my bf and I were having sex. I have feelings for my bf. But I realized the ones I have for the other guy are stronger. I really care about him butI needed this to happed to figure out what I feel and for who. I'm on my way to tell him.