My best friends mother died. I have no idea what to tell her and what to do to make her feel better. I'm so clueless and all I can do is listen to her and make her smile with stupid jokes, I feel awful.
Be a shoulder to cry on. Death is a certainty in life and nothing you say or do can make it "better". Just be supportive for your friend and the pain will lessen over the years as she lives her life.
Hug her and tell her that you will be there for her if she needs anything. It will take so much time for her to adjust to the situation and its best not to push her with attemps to make her feel better. If she knows she can count on you, she will be gratefull even if she cannot express it and eventually will come to you. Good luck!
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