My ex gave me herpes, which is how he found out he had it. We stayed together partly because we had this embarrassing secret bond. I found out he had been cheating on me our entire relationship. I reached out to the women I knew of to let them know our status revealing my own privacy. He would just lie and say that I was making it up out of anger. idk why I feel guilty for his actions. Why would these women believe a man who they know cheated on his family?