It's been 7 years since my parents divorced, my mom was quick to remarry after that. I never liked him but i kept up appearances to keep my mom happy. We where never very big on money so she often borrowed some from me, i would get it back a week or 2 later. After a few years we moved back to my old house, my father doesnt live there anymore, i didnt think much of it at the time, i was just happy to be back in my old house. but as time progressed i started to have the feeling my mom could never have payed off the house in any possible way, she wouldnt have been able to get a loan for that because she was already in debt with the banks, so i asked my father. As it turns out, he payed off the house, in exchange for not having to pay allomony any more. Now, 4 years later he still pays it every month and i'm starting to put togethere more and more pieces of the puzzle that had me baffled for so many years. I talked to my father a lot about the things that went on after the divorce and start to see more and more how my mother was playing me, over the past 4 months i have become more distant towards her and even feel like moving out all togethere. I started second guessing her questions and motives and feel like she has been using me for the last 4 years.