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im irritated. Almost a year ago a girl i know wanted to see me before she left the country. We planned on going out and have fun (not the sexy kind, just fun). During the planning stage she stopped texting back. The day she was leaving came and i sent her a text saying my goodbye and wishing her a safe trip. She answered saying that she was sorry about not spending time together but family stuff happened. We kept in contact on facebook and stuff and then a few moth later she tells me she is coming back for vacation. Now shes here and promised me she would dedicate a day to spending time with me. We made plans and agreed to meet today to go to the movies and have something to eat. She cancels on me and asked me if we could meet next week. i asked her what happened? and no answer yet. I feel like this is going to be a repeat of last time and that kinda hurts a bit. >=(

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  • Same has happened to me. Similar at least. I've shared about my guy yesterday, been 3 yrs since he last said a word to me (2012). Yet I don't blame him... like, why would he schedule and want to see me and then call it off? I do believe something came up and all, but maybe I was tired of waiting too. Circumstances were already hard on us ever since we got involved. I met him through a common circle of friends just before New Year's Eve 2009-2010, back then his company had him working in UK, we kissed on that New Year party. We're all from Portugal. Then it wasn't until 2011 that I started having feelings for him. Then he started working in Amsterdam only 4 or 5 days a week. That's when we started to see more of each other and things got serious. Surprises, dinners, fun like u say. Then he changed company and left Portugal for Denmark. Before he left we confessed our feelings but admitted there was nothing we could do, and he's the type to avoid unnecessary pain, I don't blame him for that. That's when we fell off track. Still, in the middle of pain, months not seeing each other... he went back to Portugal as things didn't go too well in Denmark. Took him a lot of courage and time to decide to find me. But the same week he planned to meet me, he called it off... i mean, he was having dinner w/parents and was like "I don't know what time I'll be done here". I guess I said something that made it seem like wanting a decision. So he called it off. That was August 2012. Then from next morning he never said a word to me again until now April 2015. Within these 3 years, a lot has happened: my dad passed away, I left Portugal, moved out and now I'm back in my childhood town Macau, 2 continents away. And I still love him. But I guess I'm just feeling lonely...

  • Same problem, + the guy is sick so maybe I will never see him before he dies..

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