I was already a year into a relationship with my abusive ex when she told me she was married with a kid. I didn't mind, she was my first, so I didn't know how it was supposed to be, so we still went out for some time, I really did love her. I got her pregnant, then she aborted the kid without letting me know. Abortion is illegal in our country, and after she did the same thing 2 more times(effectively killing 3 sons/daughters of mine), I knocked her up one more time then left her hanging. After that was done, I used her as a fu*kbuddy for 2 more years as revenge.