My mom is uneducated while my dad went studied abroad. I love the way both parent balance things and stuff while they raise me and siblings. I thought they really know how to tolerate with each other a lot until recently I just found out that my dad always the "punching bag" and my mom is the one always get to decide everything. Even when I was small we always scared of our mom. She would get angry if we misbehave or we say inappropriate things. And also she decides everything for us. I, now, realized how that make such huge impact on our life. Old relatives always compliment us for being so nice, polite and shy but now, we're are big enough to have our own lives but we're very indecisive, we like to be in our comfort zone all time. We lose so many things in our lives. Our dad been telling us to just have our own life, decide what to do, and it's okay to make mistakes. But we're just too scared. Always end up lose all the opportunity for not making decision. Whatever we do, we're always thing what our parents would say abt it. It was never about myself, ourselves.