In my family it is usual for parents to arrange their children's marriages. I am now 21 and every time we go to any party or function, my parents talk about how other people are asking how I am and what I am studying. It really creeps me out how instead of being checked out by guys their parents are staring at me. And I cant stop thinking that when I will have the arranged marriage, it is kinda like my parents are deciding who I will have sex with. I mean I do get a say in the matter but still it feels very weird.