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My dad made huge loans few years ago and we all never knew it because we live moderatly and never felt like demand something big these few 5-6 yrs ago.. last year when my dad start losing his job, he got difficulties on paying his debt and told my mom he is going to sell our one and only fuckin house, to pay his debt.. my mom refused and asked my aunt for help, we gave them our house certificate for a lot of money for my dad's debt. My mom suffers a lot of stress, both of them even got light stroke. After fee months my dad start to get a job and my mom managed to gather her sanity back.. but two months later my dad becomes unemployed again, and we just knew that......he still have hundreds thousand debt in some banks. My mom works as private teacher for me and my sister, but my dad does nothing; both for us nor for his debt. Debt collector starts coming to our house, my mom starts to be depressed again, and my dad still do nothing. I got schoarship a year ago to attend university, I even do part times for me and help my mom... but they keep telling me to fucking serious and concern about my study. How am I supposed to do that, as the oldest child?? How can I stand to see my mom suffered? I told her to get divorced, she afraid my dad would go blind and kill her (or himself) because he was freakingly mad when my mom first ask what was his debts all for (and we never know the reason until now). I fucking confused, angry, upset...and especially concern of my little sis and mom's mental health.....

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  • You have hit rock bottom, nothing can make it any worse i guess. And the best thing about hitting rock bottom is that you can make life altering decisions, convince your mom to divorce him and flee along with you and your sis, since your dad is a nut case. Don't tell any of your relatives about it, just do it and get into the university to get a stable job to help your mom and sis.

  • Ask for help. Seriously, from anyone. You need to get out off this situation, and if your father is Just holding the Family down, divorce is the best choice. If your fear is the possible violence, finda someone to help and make company to your mother when she gives him the news, someone to protect her.

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