I've been with my boyfriend for three years, and he just turned 26. I just realized that he has a BIG problem telling female ages. I had to tell him his convo with a 14 year old cousin was inappropriate. His uncle does not want him to visit again. He doesn't see a problem, but I a sickened that he and his friends talk about how HOT the neighbor girls are. They're 11 and 13. I may leave him over this. I think he's a pedo.