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Sex with my boyfriend is becoming awful. Over the past year or so he's put on weight, enough for me to find him less attractive, though I still love him, and enough for him to be too self concious about having sex. We haven't done it in weeks and barely do it once a month now. Then when we do he doesn't even try to give me an orgasm anymore. I've been told by a lot of people, both genders, that I'm really pretty plus I have a good body and I let him know that I still want sex but nothing. I've tried sleeping naked, sensuous massages and just trying to initiate and still nothing. What makes it worse is that a guy at my university who I'm really attracted to has let me know that he wants me too. I can't even rationalise properly because I'm so frustrated, I don't know what to do. My boyfriend just refuses to talk to me about this whole issue but I don't want to cheat on him yet I feel like he's leaving me no choice. Urghhhhhhhhhhhh

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  • Just tell straight up that you want sex or you can't be with him, maybe something is going on with him that you don't know about and he is embarrassed to tell you about ?

  • your boyfriendis suffering from a thyroid issue, classic symptoms, get him checked.

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