My partner has the worst double standards, like tonight for instance. They comes home and complain that they have a headache and ask me to turn off the music I was playing, which was on quiet I might add. I do so then less than a minute later their music comes on considerably louder. I obviously raise the issue and I'm labelled a 'vicious bully' leading to a stupid argument, now there's a tense atmosphere, not cool. It's funny how stupid little things your partner does can really annoy you when you live together. . .