I think I might have to dump my boyfriend. I love him and he loves me, but aside from this, he`s really jealous and I have troubles with stress and anxiety. My cortisol levels are through the roof and everytime I get angry or upset, my overall health declines. I`ve been fighting with a stubborn, recurrent infection for the past 3 months and being regularly upset is not improving my condition. And I`m regularly upset because my boyfriend is jealous for no reason (no reason from me, at least, though I suspect a trauma in a past relationship, because he`s overly-jealous) and throws tantrums that really upset me. It upsets me when he randomly accuses me of cheating or when he gets mad about my relationships before I met him. Yesterday we were watching a movie and one of the female characters was involved with older men. My boyfriend promptly asked me if I dated older men, I said of course not, and then he got upset because he thought I was lying... I think my boyfriend is bad for my health..