My wife and I have been married for 10 months and only had sex 9 times. When we do have sex, I have no trouble getting her to cum, and she loves it. She however has never made me cum and gives up after 3 minutes of blowing me. She refuses to try a new position, makes me do all the work, and never returns the favor if I go down on her first. I absolutely love her and and I know she loves me still. I want things to change, she just doesn't seem to share that sentiment. We've talked about this dozens of times and she keeps assuring me that it will get better soon (she's been saying this for 9 months). I'm really getting tired of it and don't know what to do. Help?